Kepuasan Pernikahan Pasangan Beda Etnis ditentukan Resolusi Konflik dan Intimasi Spiritual
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https://doi.org/10.26740/jptt.v11n1.p17-31Keywords:
Intimasi spiritual, kepuasan pernikahan, resolusi konflikAbstract
The aim of this study was to examine the effect of conflict resolution and spiritual intimacy on marital satisfaction among interracial married couples. Subjects in this study were 51 interracial married couples in one of the church synods in Indonesia. Data were collected using conflict resolution, spiritual intimacy and marital satisfaction scales. Data analysis techniques used in this study were multiple and partial regression analysis. The result showed that there is an effect of conflict resolution and spiritual intimacy to marital satisfaction simultaneously. On the other hand, both conflict resolution and spiritual intimacy has their own roles towards marital satisfaction among interracial married couples. Nevertheless, compared with conflict resolution, spiritual intimacy has a bigger impact towards marriage satisfaction.
Keywords: Conflict resolution, marital satisfaction, spiritual intimacy
Abstrak: Tujuan penelitian ini adalah menguji pengaruh resolusi konflik dan intimasi spiritual terhadap kepuasan pernikahan pada pasangan suami istri beda etnis. Subjek penelitian adalah 51 pasangan suami istri beda etnis pada salah satu sinode gereja di Indonesia. Penelitian ini menggunakan skala resolusi konflik, skala intimasi spiritual dan skala kepuasan pernikahan. Teknik analisis data dalam penelitian ini menggunakan uji regresi berganda. Analisis regresi linier berganda menunjukkan adanya pengaruh yang signifikan dari resolusi konflik dan intimasi spiritual terhadap kepuasan pernikahan secara simultan. Selain itu, baik resolusi konflik ataupun intimasi spiritual masing-masing memiliki peran terhadap kepuasan pernikahan pada pasangan Kristiani beda etnis. Meski demikian, dibandingkan dengan resolusi konflik, intimasi spiritual memberikan pengaruh yang lebih besar terhadap kepuasan pernikahan.
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Harahap, R. E. (2016). Problematika perkawinan beda kultur: Studi kasus pada pasangan suami istri beda suku di Kelurahan Kober. Undergraduate thesis. Institut Agama Islam Negeri, Purwokerto. Retrieved from https://core.ac.uk/download/pdf/295320791.pdf
Hariyono, P. (2006). Menggali latar belakang stereotip dan persoalan etnis Cina di Jawa. Semarang: Mutiara Wacana.
Igbo, H. I., Grace, A. R., & Christiana, E. O. (2015). Relationship between duration of marriage, personality trait, gender and conflict resolution strategies of spouses. Procedia - Social and Behavioral Sciences, 190, 490-496. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.sbspro.2015.05.032
Kumparan (2019, November 27). Kami Membandingkan Jumlah Pernikahan dan Perceraian di Indonesia. Retrieved from https://kumparan.com/kumparannews/kami-membandingkan-jumlah-pernikahan-dan-perceraian-di-indonesia-1sKM5fAHafr
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Olson, D. H. & Larson, P. J. (2008). Prepare/enrich: Customized version. Minneapolis: Life Innovations Inc.
Olson, D. H., Olson-Sigg, A., & Larson, P. (2008). The couple check up. Nashville: Thomas Nelson, Inc.
Pramudito, A. A. (2017). Merenda Cinta Melintas Budaya Hingga Senja Tiba (Studi Literatur tentang Perkawinan Antar-Budaya). Buletin Psikologi, 25(2), 7688. https://doi.org/10.22146/buletinpsikologi.27233
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Rostami, A. M., & Gol, H. C. (2014). Prediction of marital satisfaction based on spiritual intelligence. Procedia-Sosial and Behavioral Sciences, 116, 2573-2577. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.sbspro.2014.01.613
Schneewind, K. A., & Gerhard, A. K. (2014). Relationship personality, conflict resolution, and marital satisfaction in the first 5 years of marriage. Family Relations, 51(1), 63-71.https://doi.org/10.1111/j.1741-3729.2002.00063.x
Skinner, A. L., & Hudac, C. M. (2017). œYuck, you disgust me! Affective bias against interracial couples. Journal of Experimental Social Psychology, 68, 6877. https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jesp.2016.05.008
Stinson, M. A., Bermudez, J. M., Gale, J., Lewis, D., Meyer, A. S., & Templeton, G. B. (2017). Marital satisfaction, conflict resolution styles, and religious attendance among latino couples: using the actorpartner interdependence model. The Family Journal: Counseling and Therapy for Couples and Families, 25(3), 215-223. https://doi.org/10.1177/1066480717710645
Stone, E. A., & Shackelford, T. K. (2007). Marital satisfaction. Encyclopedia of Social Psychology, 54154. https://dx.doi.org/10.4135/9781412956253
Tuapattinaya, Y. I. F., & Hartati, S. (2014). Pengambilan keputusan untuk menikah beda etnis: Studi fenomenologis pada perempuan Jawa. Jurnal Psikologi Undip, 13(1), 3441. https://doi.org/10.14710/jpu.13.1.34-41
Utami, T., & Mariyati, L. I. (2015). Persepsi terhadap resolusi konflik suami dan kepuasan pernikahan pada istri bekerja di Kelurahan Bligo. Seminar Psikologi & Kemanusiaan, 407-412. Retrieved from http://mpsi.umm.ac.id/files/file/407-412%20Trisni%20Utami.pdf
Yamaguchi, A., Kim, M.S., Oshio, A., & Akutsu, S. (2016). Relationship between bicultural identity and psychological well-being among American and Japanese older adults. Journal of Healthy Psychology Open, 3(1), 1-12. https://doi.org/10.1177/2055102916650093
Zahra, S. A., & Caninsti, R. (2016). Hubungan antara kepuasan pernikahan dengan spiritualitas pada istri bekerja yang berada dalam tahap pernikahan families with school children. Jurnal Psikogenesis, 4(2), 215-223. https://doi.org/10.24854/jps.v4i2.351
Zarei, E., & Ahmadisarkhooni, T. (2013). Relationships between spiritual quotient and marital satisfaction level of men, women, and couples refered to consultancy center of Bandar Abbas. Iranian Journal of Psychiatry Behavioral Sciences. 7(1), 4551. Retrieved from https://www.researchgate.net/publication/260917147
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